why do men and women cheat?

[investyourtimehere]

The respect for each other are already gone.

[BK_Adores_Chase]

I agree with the bored part.  You have to keep things interesting.

[JanelleTaylor]

Good people making bad decisions.

[kittyspams]

My first boyfriend cheated on me with 10 girls. This was way back in high school. We were "kids" then.  So, the next time I saw him, I broke up with him, and moved on. He then calls me to say sorry, and I just ignored him. And I am glad I did it. After that relationship, I didn't take those kind of relationships seriously. (on the top of that, I am glad I didn't lose it with him) I don't believe in high school relationships to last that long, but if they do last long for people, kudos to them! I hope they are supporting eachother. 

Then again, from my girlfriends, they say they get bored or they try to grab their attention by saying things like "I will die if you don't stay with me" and actually hurting themselves. And they have a "reason to cheat" because they are unhappy.

The whole post sounds high school-y, doesn't it? 

[anubabs]

i am yet to understand why ppl cheat.....

[shalah]

? You know to me its easy to walk away from a cheater. I know some people say they love them to much to let the relationship go but Why.

Why is it so hard to let go. What they have done is just plain disrespectful and embarrasing. By continueing the relationship you put yourself in the position of feeling defensive, untrusting, and worring that he will do it again.

My friends were worried about me so they didn't tell me. I feel if theey had really cared they would have atleast said  something, anything. They new me well enough toknow I wouldn't have gat madat them. In fact I thought I was pretty calm through it all. although I would like to have beat him near death.

To me they all should have felt sorry for him not me. There are to many good men that will respect and love you out there to settle with a cheater.

When I dumped my ex I didn't dump my friends but distanced my self from them and moved on, made new friends, and eventually dated. If I had not done this I wouldn't be with the wondeful man I am with now.

We respect, trust and love each other unconditionly. We have separete lives to some degree because of our jobs, children, and other responsibilities but we do not worry about each other. We talk on the phone when we are not together and see each other 3 to 5 days a week. He has a daughter from a previous marriage so I encouraged him to spend plenty of one on one time with her and not with all of us together all the time. Children need to know that just because their parents start a new relationship that they are still important to. We also do alot of things together as one big family. His daughter loves us and we love her.

Our relationship may not be ideal for some but it is perfect for us. Sorry got off track but you get my point.

[emiyasato]

I believe they cheat because they give up to easily on relationships, it is hard work and life is now about instant gratification. 

[tantricia44]

Today's Men & Women cheat because they are a throw back to the caveman/woman era. Where they have to F--k everything around them. Being a part of this human species, this is the #1 behavior that I'm really ashamed & disappointed in. If a guy ever cheated on me once. They will never get another  chance to do it again! 1 strike only & that's GAME OVER!!!!!

Because Humans have the larger brain, they are placed in the highest intellectual range among the species in the world. I don't think so, when you think with your dumber brain. (*bleep*/*bleep*), it's not what I call being smart.

I think the most intelligent animals are the wolves. They mate for life & none of the subordinate female wolves will ever cross the line & try to mate with the alpha male. If that happens, the female subordinate will be killed by the by the pack. Any pups from the subordinate female will be killed as well.

Too bad we don't have that genetic code in human genes. If we had a law like the wolves, divorce would be non-existing. All divorce lawyers would need to find another line of work. LOL

Dumb excuses for cheating, I'm bored, my spouse doesn't want to do it w/me anymore, She cheated on me 1st so...,Forced into an arranged marriage & we don't love each other, he fell out love me,,,,,

So, if you're sooooo horny that you need to grab anything off the street & your spouse is not there or you hate your spouse. Go buy sex toys to help you. It's affordable, cleaner,reusable, easy storage, easy to us instructions. Now a days, you can get a virus just by kissing someone on the mouth.
Mono has increased in the # of infections among teens. Teens think  it's safe because, their not going all the way. Once u make that choice to cheat, we won't cry for you, if find yourself 6ft under. You'd be dead before you could wonder....just what a stupid thing you did, for cheating on your wife, for 10 seconds of unprotected sex, for picking a *bleep* off the street, for being  a selfish  *bleep* to think that you could get way with it. All I could say is HA-ha,ha,ha,ha,ha,   as I spit on you're nameless grave. LoL, I was poet & didn't know it!

Thank you for letting me vent!

[ladycasshmere]

They cheat because they are not happy in their relationship and they step out of the relationship to try to find whatever it is they feel that they are not getting. Wheter it is attention,sex, or they are feeling emotionally detached from the person they are with. It is possible for someone to fall out of love for someone and start to cheat. Or they feel they are not getting enough love. They feel that they are going to hurt their significant other by breaking up when the reality is that finding out you been cheated on hurts just as bad as a  break up.Its just plain wrong. I believe with proper communication you can achieve great goals in any relationship.