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moneyink82

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i wouldn't do it
« on: February 02, 2011, 02:32:58 pm »
would you marry a woman with kids and you was rich?
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Re: i wouldn't do it
« Reply #1 on: February 02, 2011, 02:48:58 pm »
Money can solve a lot of problems but my personal choice is not to date anyone with kids for various reasons including the drama that might come with it.  It will depend on a lot of things especially the age of the kids and their personality.  If the kids were grown or a lot older say 16 or 17 then that might make a difference.  No way would I want to date someone with kids younger than 14 regardless of how much money I had. 

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Re: i wouldn't do it
« Reply #2 on: February 02, 2011, 02:53:19 pm »
I say yes if you really love her, kids are a part of her to.

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Re: i wouldn't do it
« Reply #3 on: February 02, 2011, 03:40:48 pm »
I have been married since age 19 to my husband for almost 34 years.  If he was to die before me, I don't think I'll ever marry again.

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« Reply #4 on: February 02, 2011, 05:05:43 pm »
I wouldn't make that a deciding factor but if one is concerned with marrying someone with kids because he or she is afraid that person is only in it for the money, I would suggest living together first and seeing how long it takes for the true colors to show.

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Re: i wouldn't do it
« Reply #5 on: February 02, 2011, 10:15:05 pm »
If I was rich, I would never get married.

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Re: i wouldn't do it
« Reply #6 on: February 03, 2011, 03:09:30 am »
Why wreck a perfectly good relationship by getting married. LOL

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Re: i wouldn't do it
« Reply #7 on: February 03, 2011, 06:50:05 am »
If money was important to me, I don't think so. 

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« Reply #8 on: February 03, 2011, 08:51:20 am »
Like dreamyxo said , Money isnt everything , im sure even brad and ange have their problems , all the those kids and you think they have smile on their faces every day ? psshh Sure   , Me personally i wouldnt date a woman nor marry her with kids like it take a serious person to go thru that , some people like that some people dont

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« Reply #9 on: February 03, 2011, 10:37:21 am »
It would all depend on if you want a ready made  family, like kids at any age and most of all if you really love the woman above all else.  It takes a strong person to want to take on that type of responsibility and all the drama that comes with a ready made family
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Re: i wouldn't do it
« Reply #10 on: February 03, 2011, 05:56:53 pm »
i wouldnt marry a man unless i loved him. it wouldnt matter if he had kids or he was rich.

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Re: i wouldn't do it
« Reply #11 on: February 03, 2011, 08:23:00 pm »
ok..u need to know how to write properly

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Re: i wouldn't do it
« Reply #12 on: February 03, 2011, 08:52:51 pm »
Love can turn your brain to mush. I don't know if I were able to say No if I fell in love with someone with kids.

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Re: i wouldn't do it
« Reply #13 on: February 07, 2011, 06:33:21 am »
 :- confusing, who has the money me or her ?  But no, the reason for marriage should not be for money, besides those kids would need the money for college.

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