If ur man was in jail.....??

[Lne912]

If ur man was in jail and he starts claiming he wants it to be better n that we wants to make it work but before you both move forward with the relationship, he wants you to take a lie detector test (both of u) and come clean with anything and see if we've been lying to each other........and lets say u did do something........what do u do?? do u tell him?? ......or lie again and maybe get caught later??  idk, give me some answers?

[rigo23]

First i have a lady that understands that i prefer to hear the truth. besides why do you want to get in trouble for the same stupid thing twice. I know its hard to always tell the truth but its better to be honest with yourself first because only you know what you want.

[Lne912]

ya i know....this happened to me today....i was completely honest with him....and he couldnt handle the truth. he says hes ready to here certain things....knowing that somethings i say or he might hear from me, he might not like....but i feel he just did this to get somethings out of me....but just not knowing exactly what he was gonna hear...so when he heard it, he didnt care about anything he said before ..only to never wanna see him again...but whatever happened to the times he screwed me over and have forgiven him sooo many times?? they say they want u to be honest...but is that really what u want?? can u guys really handle the truth??

[CodyR]

Wether your with somebody for 50 years or 50 minutes the truth is always a upstanding factor to live by in a relationship.  If your always truthful and things go bad you cant say you didn't put your best effort into it and move along.

[froggylover227]

If my man was in jail, he wouldn't be my man....end of story.

[trujillo33]

Tell him the truth. If u guys cant tell one another the truth.....u shouldnt be together. U should be able to tell him anything.

[Lne912]

@ froggy lover....u never now what could happen...so u shouldnt say that.....
and at trujillo....i know, thats what i told him.....n i thought thats what he wanted .....i wish i could be able to tell him anything with out being the bad guy all the time....he has done way more to me then i have or ever will do to him. y cant he just understand.....

[Ebrowning]

Be honest. It's the best thing for both you and him.