I actually buy my husband a playboy subscription myself. I know everyone is going to laugh, but he actually reads the entire magazine front to back. (Honestly) I told him in the beginning not to hide anything from me. When he hides things from me that is when I feel cheated and feel like he is doing something wrong. When the magazine comes we look at the pictures together and tell each other what we think of the girls. If him or I was gone for an extended period of time, I would much rather him getting off to a magazine or a movie than to find someone else. We have sex nearly every day, so I couldn't expect him to go without anything for that amount of time. But he knows and would much rather come to me when we are home together.
Thankfully I have a husband who I trust and tells me everything or at least everything I need him to.