CHANGING OTHERS FOR THE GOOD

[aggie49]

if you had the chance to change or touch someones life what would it be that would make it special.

mine would be like always just give to those who are less fortune then i my parents brought me up to help anyone who needs it and thow its hard most of the time because im in the same boat as lot of people but i still give if i got it

[jcribb16]

   You are so right, aggie.  I know this lady who has 5 younger children, whose husband had to go to jail.  She only works part time herself.  I had mentioned to her once that while he is in jail, if we can help with anything to let us know.  She's got a lot of pride, but the other day she came to me privately and asked if I could help her out with a little gas and food (milk, peanut butter, bread, etc.)  We helped her by at least giving her some to help with gas and a little food.  It felt good to know we helped a mom and her children, even though we actually are tight ourselves and used money that should have paid a couple of bills.
Like you said, we were raised by our parents to want to help someone in need. You never know just how much you are helping someone and I really believe you will be blessed and helped by someone else when that time comes.

[aggie49]

jcribb16

i hear ya i have been in some binds myself and i always thank god for the help i get from others its my pleasure to no you and your family god bless

[sarapow79]

I am all for the heping the other person change and so forth , but there is a limit to me that person has to be ready for a change ... but there are some people that need a great change as well.. if this makes any sense at all
But I am speaking from experince if the person can not learn from their mistakes and keeps repeating it over and over then there is no changing them , but if the person is ready to learn and move on then I am all for helping 

[aggie49]

sarapow79

yes i understand that to you can't change someone unless they want to change