TBH, the first thing I wondered after reading the update was: which of those women (ABC) were having sex with either the pastor or the Elders. Horrible thought, I know, but it just popped up. How else would those women hold such sway over an event that is otherwise "he said, she said" and no names were named. (Although I'm sure that there are plenty of other, more innocent reasons...)
Those women should be shamed for their intolerance and lack of common sense. I noticed on the original blog, one of the readers posted the best point about how children learn such negative characteristics from adults (although I don't know if she meant to):
Rebecca says:
February 4, 2011 at 7:09 am
It sounds like you have a wonderfully special little boy, and you are a wonderful Mom! As I read this post, my 3-year-old saw the picture (of the fabulous Daphne costume, seriously, he looks awesome), and the first thing he said was “that boy’s sitting on a pumpkin”. It always makes me smile when I’m reminded to focus on the important things by my toddler
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That is a wise toddler.