Should a misdemeanor be the only reason not to get a job?

[MistyM3]

So here is my current problem. I am 24 with 3 small children. I have only been to jail one time in 2004 for theft. It was a misdemeanor. I was 18 and stupid and I wasn't even pregnant with my first child yet. I have since learned my lesson and I know it was a stupid childish act. But it has still prevented me from getting EVERY job have applied for. I have been out of work for 2 years straight. I can get it expunged but it will be $100. And that's not even a guarantee. That''s just to go in front  of the judge. I don't have that kind of money just laying around. I have been forced to get state assistance and the father doesn't pay child support at all.

I just want feedback from everyone. I have had interviews where I explained the theft and others that I just didn't mention at all even when asked. I have a stack of rejection letters due to the misdemeanor.

[muush88]

Do they ask if you been convicted of a misdemeanors? ive only seen have you ever been convicted of a felony

I would try a couple of applications and not putting anything down for convictions use your head which ones will check.

ive worked with people who been in prison for alot more than theft.  I dont  think a misdemeanor at 18 years of age should count against you  if its only one time.  

[oldbuddy]

Just my opinion from personal experience, but get the $100 and get it expunged as soon as possible. You do NOT want that hanging around your neck the rest of your life. Our son couldn't get a job and he had a Masters degree, until his record was clean. It's crazy out there, so play the game no matter what it takes.

[thetotalfool]

A teenage mistake shouldn't haunt somebody for the rest of their life.     But the economy is so bad, businesses can afford to be extra picky.

Maybe the local public defenders office could recommend a more affordable attorney, or some other service to help you out.

[oldbuddy]

A teenage mistake shouldn't haunt somebody for the rest of their life.     But the economy is so bad, businesses can afford to be extra picky.

Maybe the local public defenders office could recommend a more affordable attorney, or some other service to help you out.

It's not the attorney that costs $100, it's the court fees. It can be done without an attorney at all, but it's harder.

[malmalthekiller]

You know, honestly, where I work it says that it isn't the only reason you shouldn't get a job, and that if you explain what happened that it depends on the situation.

You think someone would give you a chance, especially after the time elapse. What kind of jobs are you applying for? Are they all retail?