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Title: Married or not Married
Post by: brebrelewis28 on June 08, 2011, 07:43:43 pm
 :DHay people was wondering how many of us are married are getting married are not married in here lol im married and love it been married for 14yrs lol just wonted to see what people say about marriage now a days its so much divorce going on it not funny in fact im about to renew my vowes soon god bless. :heart:
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Post by: dreamyxo on June 08, 2011, 09:06:53 pm
I'm not married.  Never planned on getting married, never had a desire.
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Post by: Elizabethar on June 08, 2011, 09:10:14 pm
I have been married for 16 year's. Most of it has been great!!!
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Post by: munitono on June 08, 2011, 10:10:28 pm
I am married. It has been almost 8 years.  :wave:
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Post by: Boise40 on June 08, 2011, 10:14:59 pm
Im 24yrs old and I'm not married since Im single anyways LOL. Marriage doesn't stop your partner from going behind your back to cheat. Marriage also don't bring any promises because we all know that promises may get broken. There is nothing solid or permanent about marriage because it may end sooner or later. Once in a full moon, there could be some marriages that could last forever. Anyways, Im not a big fan of getting married because I don't wanna deal with getting a divorce.
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Post by: tzs on June 08, 2011, 10:58:58 pm
I have been married for 10 yrs, and we have one beautifull little girl! Wouldnt change a thing!-Well, maybe our money situation, but who doesn't want that already :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart:!
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Post by: ejholt on June 09, 2011, 03:04:09 am
I am not married.  I am divorced.  I have 3 children, 7 grand children and 13 great grand children.  They are the light of my life.  I had to raise my children alone and work and put them in school.  But thank God we made it.
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Post by: Gerianne on June 09, 2011, 07:11:29 am
not married.
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Post by: noirlupe on June 09, 2011, 08:08:51 am
I was a single mom of 4 for years but now I am married five years in August and have a step daughter I adore.  Love being married this time around.  I am finally charished and appreciated.  I was raised in a commune and I have had a hard time dealing with the real world.
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Post by: kqa on June 09, 2011, 08:30:39 am
I am divorced currently.  Getting divorced probably saved my life and definitely saved my sanity as my husband was schizophrenic.  I just didn't know it at the time.
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Post by: articx on June 09, 2011, 08:39:59 am
I am not married, and will never get married.
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Post by: cateyes1 on June 09, 2011, 12:05:11 pm
I was married, divorced, married again widow, and will never ever marry again
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Post by: shelbyhubb on June 09, 2011, 12:26:05 pm
 :thumbsup: I have been married. I was for over 16 years. I am no longer married and I live with my Partner now. My Ex is still my best friend and I would not let anything happen to him. We have a wonderful son together. If there are some people out there lucky enough to be friends with thier Ex, I am happy for you too.
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Post by: dreamongirl on June 09, 2011, 12:52:58 pm
not married. not for a long time, lol
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Post by: CHANEYLAKEGIRL on June 09, 2011, 01:03:37 pm
Married for 24 years and we have 2 adult children.  He is the best thing that ever happened to me.  :heart: :heart:
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Post by: bretay on June 09, 2011, 01:15:28 pm
I have been married for 34 yrs.I have 3 daughters and 2 granddaughters.I got married when I was 15.
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Post by: ghunter on June 09, 2011, 01:22:01 pm
I have been married for 35 years, with one daugther and one son.  My husband and I have three beautiful granddaughter and are still in love to this day.  Marriage is a little give and take and some patience. :heart: :heart: :heart:
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Post by: swv on June 09, 2011, 01:39:39 pm
I have been married but am happily divorced now!
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Post by: devideddi on June 09, 2011, 02:46:40 pm
married for 24 years
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Post by: sgluckadoo on June 09, 2011, 02:49:49 pm
I am married and do not recommend it. It is very tiresome putting up with someone else all the time.
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Post by: Jasmine81 on June 09, 2011, 04:02:07 pm
I was in a 10 year relationship and I am SO GLAD that we did not get married.

I used to want to get married.

My parents were married for 28 years.  I always thought that I could make a marriage work if they could do it.  Everyone thought that they would be together forever.  But that sadly didn't happen.

I don't need a piece of paper to show that I am committed to somebody.

Plus the thought of having a joint checking account and their credit being my credit just scares me to death.  I am too independent for all of that.

I think that marriage was the "thing" to do for my parent's generation, but I feel different about my generation.
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Post by: tech2d on June 09, 2011, 04:21:16 pm
I was married, divorced, married again and my wife left. We are "legally" married but we haven't been in touch for over 5 years. Not real anxious to go thru that again. :BangHead:
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Post by: hephzibahpotoak on June 09, 2011, 05:18:44 pm
if u like it, then you should have put a ring on it... :-) :wave: :wave: :wave:
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Post by: brebrelewis28 on June 09, 2011, 05:24:45 pm
YOU GO!!!!IM WITH YOU ON THAT ONE LOL BEST WAY TO PUT IT LOL
if u like it, then you should have put a ring on it... :-) :wave: :wave: :wave:
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Post by: pokemaz on June 09, 2011, 07:50:30 pm
I've been married for 7 years this August, but the fate of our marriage is up in the air right now. Hoping for the best, preparing for the worst. O.o
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Post by: Tinkerbell85 on June 09, 2011, 10:27:55 pm
Lol no I'm not married never really had the desire to get married. I have been engaged though like two times that was pretty weird too me anyway because I wasn't use to that. But I love being single :heart:
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Post by: ancmetro on June 09, 2011, 10:37:12 pm
      Things are not what they used to be. People marry then for financial reasons, security, love and/or to start a family. Now people can still have all these things and not be married. You know the single parent syndrome. And you do not have to worry about family quarrels, divorce and even widowhood.
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Post by: Tere2 on June 10, 2011, 02:14:18 am
 :wave: Not married. I've been divorced for almost 21 years.
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Post by: tigerlilly01 on June 10, 2011, 03:35:30 am
I married when I was 23 and when my husband started CHEATING on me I divorced him after 14 years of marriage  :BangHead:  I married again to what I thought was my knight in shining armor and it turned out I had married the spawn of satan  :BangHead: :BangHead: :BangHead:  I divorced the abusive, lying cheating son of a gun after 9 years of torment and swore to never do that again ..... however   :angel11: God brought a wonderful, faithful, kind, generous loving man into my life that had lost his wife of 30 years a few years ago and it was a match made in heaven so ... for the 3rd and final time  :heart: I AM MARRIED  :heart: :heart: :heart: and it has been almost 2 years.   :heart: :heart: :heart:
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Post by: cateyes1 on June 10, 2011, 03:42:47 am
I married when I was 23 and when my husband started CHEATING on me I divorced him after 14 years of marriage  :BangHead:  I married again to what I thought was my knight in shining armor and it turned out I had married the spawn of satan  :BangHead: :BangHead: :BangHead:  I divorced the abusive, lying cheating son of a gun after 9 years of torment and swore to never do that again ..... however   :angel11: God brought a wonderful, faithful, kind, generous loving man into my life that had lost his wife of 30 years a few years ago and it was a match made in heaven so ... for the 3rd and final time  :heart: I AM MARRIED  :heart: :heart: :heart: and it has been almost 2 years.   :heart: :heart: :heart:

Congrats, 3rd time is a charm  :wave: :thumbsup:
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Post by: madeara on June 10, 2011, 06:07:24 am
Marriage can be terrific when the marriage is based on respect.  I am not married.
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Post by: Glorita2 on June 10, 2011, 06:52:28 am
I'm divorced, but plan to tie the knot again sometime in Sept.  We've been together a little over a year and are expecting our first kid.  It can be challenging, but if you love each other and are willing to work at it nothing can come between you.  It also helps when the person you're marrying has also been married before.... no crazy expectations and you already know what doesn't work! LOL   :heart: :heart: :heart:
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Post by: marcar1008 on June 10, 2011, 08:18:37 am
 ;D Happily married going on 15 yrs. this December  :notworthy:  :wave:
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Post by: torchperf on June 10, 2011, 08:25:56 am
Married for 14 years also,  love being married!
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Post by: surveydad on June 10, 2011, 10:41:48 am
I have been married for 9 years this August,  :thumbsup:
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Post by: inertia4 on June 10, 2011, 11:05:43 am
Well I was married for 17 years, it ended in disaster. She was one sneaky B@@@h. She cheated not once but a few times. After the first time we went to marriage counseling and worked things out. After our children were born, she was influenced by two very deceitful people, which in my opinion ruined my marriage. I will never do it again. I wish I could go back and change it. There was a girl I knew back then that liked me and I liked her, but she was going out with someone. I did not believe and still do not believe in interfering with other relationships. I would have went out with her if she left the guy she was with. That did not happen then. 2 years ago I bumped into her and we hit it off right away, like it was 25 years ago. I now am a happy person. I have the woman I was supposed to be with. But marriage is nothing today. A piece of paper will not change anything. It causes problems. Gene Simmons said it best, "Who wants to get married? Marriage is an institution, I do not want to be institutionalized." One sentence is enough for me.
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Post by: sbmackie on June 10, 2011, 02:34:32 pm
I am married for going on 3 yrs, him and our baby are my life.
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Post by: trsaze72 on June 10, 2011, 02:51:41 pm
I also agree marriage, diplomas, certificates are just pieces of paper. I was married once, got divorced, now with a wonderful man after 5 years of divorce. I have 3 children and he has 5, we have 2 dogs and are a very happy family. I used to think it would be hard to adjust with a blended family but its nothing because I love having kids around. Maybe one day we will marry, but for now I tell my boyfriend when he is ready.
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Post by: shepherdchik on June 10, 2011, 07:18:08 pm
I was married and had my daughter young and within a few years we were divorced. I feel like it was rushed. I would love to get married again but am in no rush this time. I am perfectly happy just being with someone without a piece of paper to say we are committed
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Post by: trucktina on June 10, 2011, 07:35:26 pm
I'm single, but almost got married a couple times. I always had to end the relationships; one of the men was crazy, the other one stole money out of my checking account. I don't know if I'll ever get married, but it makes me sad to hear people say marriage isn't important. My parents are still married after 41 years. They are so different personality-wise, but I think the piece of paper and the commitment made them stick it out. I'm grateful that they did!
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Post by: angsilva2000 on June 10, 2011, 08:49:11 pm
Married or not married its either way to me is ok.
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Post by: Thumper18 on June 10, 2011, 10:30:35 pm
Not married.Hopefully will get married soon lol Been w/ my boyfriend now for 7 years so its kinda like were married already lol  :heart:
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Post by: BrittaJo14 on June 10, 2011, 10:44:00 pm
:DHay people was wondering how many of us are married are getting married are not married in here lol im married and love it been married for 14yrs lol just wonted to see what people say about marriage now a days its so much divorce going on it not funny in fact im about to renew my vowes soon god bless. :heart:

Not married, but might as well be. I have 2 little boys with the love of my life. We have been together for almost 5 years. We just can't afford it right now. A piece of paper wouldn't change anything anyway.:)
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Post by: CristinaL on June 11, 2011, 11:53:11 am
well I'm 21 going to 22, and I'm not married, but I'll love to get married with my current boyfriend in the future. and we believe that God will help us, but that's why we are waiting for Gods time  :angel11: Hope to get married soon.
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Post by: aggie49 on June 11, 2011, 01:53:47 pm
not married never again was married 4 times so now i and my man just say we are permanetly engaged he was married 1 time and neith of us feel the need to get married we have been together for going on 8 years now and we never have a fight or a disagreement i love it i feel like this ladies and guys usally as soon as you sign your name to that piece of paper it changes everything at least for me it does they feel like they can controll or own me and noone controls me or owns me
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Post by: Cuppycake on June 11, 2011, 01:59:31 pm
♥ Very happily married to the man of my dreams. ♥
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Post by: treglia on June 11, 2011, 02:30:59 pm
 :thumbsup: wishing u the best!!!!
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Post by: Kisst on June 11, 2011, 03:03:15 pm
Last week was my love's and I 5-year anniversary. We are not married, but we have talked about it. Saving up for an awesome wedding. My stash only has a few bucks in it but I rather wait however long it takes to get a beautiful dress, decent chapel and decent reception. So looking forward to the day.
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Post by: gaylasue on June 12, 2011, 05:02:44 am
31 years, 7 months, 10 days as of today.
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Post by: sommap on June 12, 2011, 09:24:02 am
Married for lots of years, widowed now.  I was happily married, but love my independence now and would not get married again.  I do believe that if you are going to have kids, you should be married.  Otherwise, I don't care if you ae married or living together.
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Post by: trsaze72 on June 12, 2011, 03:00:07 pm
Congratulations to all the married couples, that was my dream but that is not how my life went. I loved being married but unfortunately my ex husband had other dreams. I am with a new man and we both have kids he was married 2 times and so I tell him when he is ready and wants to get married than we will do it, until then I enjoy my life and having someone next to me to watch our children grow. 21, 18, 17, 16, 15, 7, 7 & 5 that is the ages of our children.